Chuck Lawless, the Dean of Doctoral Studies at Southeastern Seminary says students who struggle least tend to have had parents who modeled quiet times for them. He gives several reasons why parents should take note:
- First, Kids need to see a devotional life beyond Sunday. If all they see happens on Sunday, they’ll assume that Sunday is the only day to be with God.
- Second, They need to see that Christianity is a lifestyle, not just a weekend habit. One of the ways they’ll learn that Christianity changes lives is by seeing their parents read the Word and hearing them speak to God throughout the week.
- Next, They need to hear prayers over them and about them. Even if it seems they’re not listening, they need memories of their parents’ voices praying for them.
- And finally, They need memories to encourage them in the years to come. Maybe it’s a well-worn Bible with Daddy’s notes in it. Perhaps it’s Momma’s prayer notebook that’s crinkled over the years. Or maybe it’s an electronic journal written by one of their parents. In any case, they will be gifts they’ll cling to years later.
- His suggestion to parents and grandparents: involve your kids and grandkids in your quiet time. You may still need some completely alone time with God, but don’t miss the opportunity to invite others to join you.